Heavy side eye to people giving sex advice to women along the lines of “orgasm isn’t the real goal of sex.”
Because you know who doesn’t ever get that advice ever?
Men.
Just.
Things to ponder.
One more thing.
It’s just terrible? Like really awful? Because there’s this undertone of like “sex is all about intimacy and it’s this spiritual experience and insisting on having an orgasm is kinda shallow, ya know? Like don’t be so greedy?”
When you can pretty much guarantee that even if the woman doesn’t get off, her man does. That’s how you know sex is over, right? When he’s done?
Why is it greedy or shallow for you to expect what is taken for granted for him?
Like how are we not past this, as a society? Why are women still being told to defer their own sexual fulfillment for their man’s sake?
Seriously, if your likelihood of getting off is higher when youre alone than when you’re with your partner, why are you having sex with him? You can be just as close as friends, without having to deal with the pain of habitual dissatisfaction, frustration, and pretending.
Lastly, the very best advice I can possibly give to any of my followers is to stop faking orgasms, or never start. His ego in the moment isn’t more important than your fulfillment throughout your life and you best believe that the longer you fake it the bigger a deal it will be when you finally get fed up with pretending.
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